Thank you for this amazing story. I was adopted as an infant as was my sister. I grew up the people-pleasing “compliant” and she was the rebel. Both of us have spent years recovering from addiction issues and I always wondered why I have attachment issues and do much fear and self-hatred. I am filled with love and gratitude towards my adopted family and hesitate to seek my birth parents for fear I rip the scab of the Primal Wound! I wish all the leaders making decisions on abortion and women’s rights understood the point you make so clearly. Thank you for a heartfelt story.